Ha)įor all my women out there who take pride in control - the constant hustle, the striving - somewhere inside you believe that the more you achieve, the more success you gain, the more external things you have (think: big house, nice car, the right clothes, “good” kids) the more “enough” you are. And if you do manage to assert yourself, doubt flies in faster than a mosquito to warm blood. You don’t ask for help or for what you really need - childcare support, a personal or executive assistant, for your teammate to step up her game. It might even show up in you physically: bulky clothes that hide your figure, colors that don’t call attention, sitting with your legs tightly crossed and your hands tucked between them. When asked what you want, you waffle instead of saying what you mean. You struggle to have a real opinion, whether it’s choosing where to go for dinner, asserting your idea in a meeting, or telling your partner what feels good during sex. Your voice is stifled (you make yourself small) You are making others’ needs more important than your own. If you are compromising yourself, you are not standing in your worth. When you know the truth of your worth, you draw a line in the sand to say what you’re available for and what you’re not. It’s making your value dependent on outside validation, and it’s seeking the feeling of being liked for how much you do. On top of the big meeting they’re executing and the new service they’re offering and getting to the gym, yes of course I’ll put together a class gift basket for my son’s teacher!īeing all things to all people is not honoring your worth. They pretzels themselves to be all things to all people. This comes out with many of the women I work with: they’ve become people-pleasing contortionists. You’re all things to all people (and you have shit boundaries) How do you know if you have worth work to do? 1. 4 Glaring Signs You Must Do Your Worth Work™ Not convinced? Tell me if these signs are familiar…. Word to the wise: “worth” and “enough-ness” are interchangeable. Because every single woman goes through this.) (Show me a woman who’s never had this thought, and… wait. Listen: every single woman (every human, really, but I work with women) suffers from this true pandemic: not feeling like “enough”: good enough, smart enough, tall enough, pretty enough, experienced enough… fill-in-the-blank enough. And it starts here, with what you believe about your enough-ness. And what the world needs right now, always and especially as we face an unprecedented global crisis, are people abundant with the conviction of their worth and the energy that follows to serve each other and bring peace. They are stifling your brilliance, your joy, and your ability to serve and impact others. The lies you’ve been believing about your worth are crippling you. We need to have a conversation about your self-worth, right now. Only you're playing the game that you're only this bit of it.Sit down, buckle up, and turn off your notifications. Your body is continuous with the total energy system of the cosmos, and it's all you. Just as the waves are continuous with the ocean. If you find out it's you who circulates your blood, you will at the same moment find out that you are shining the sun.īecause your physical organism is one continuous process with everything else that's going on. "In other words, the so-called involuntary circulation of your blood is one continuous process with the stars shining. You are the infinite (intuit), you are the finite (fire). You are the perceiver, that perceived the parable, the never-ending end. Patience 'cause this all subsides in due time,Īnd the truth is I couldn't love you more than I have come to know.Īnd this Mother Sun is proud to have watched you grow. My apologies, Eno, but it's all in your head.įiction based off truths, you led me to aid you, guide you. Sink in the ebb and flow, the ebb and flow we’re grown from the purest form of… we have become the purest form of love.Įndlessly, endlessly, endlessly, endlessly. All that you know versus all that you don’t. Your primordial sound echoing out.Įxistence grows from itself. What you seek the obsolete the answers are of no use to you now. We will be the salvation the Mother seeksĪll progression-it stems from conclusion.
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